So, you’re thinking about eloping in Wisconsin—heck yes! Whether you’re drawn to the state’s rolling bluffs, Lake Superior’s shores, or even a simple cozy cabin in the Northwoods, Wisconsin has some seriously underrated spots to say “I do.” But where do you even start? What’s legally required? And how do you make your elopement feel like you? As a queer elopement photographer who’s helped couples create their dream day in this beautiful state, I’ve got you covered. This guide walks you through everything you need to know to elope in Wisconsin.
If Wisconsin isn’t already on your radar for an elopement, I think it should be. This state is packed with natural beauty and some of the coolest hidden gems. Here’s why you might want to consider Wisconsin for your elopement:
You can get dramatic cliffs at Devil’s Lake, peaceful shores in Door County, or anything in between. So, whether you want something near water or deep in a forest, there’s definitely a location that fits your vibe as a couple.
Love the idea of a cozy winter elopement? Wisconsin’s snowy landscapes are pretty fairytale-like (but also cold!). Prefer fall colors? The autumn foliage doesn’t disappoint. And then there’s spring and summer that bring wildflowers, lush greenery, and perfect lake days. Whatever you prefer, there will be beauty all year round.
If you want privacy on your elopement day, Wisconsin delivers. You can find hidden waterfalls, remote cabins, and quiet state parks that let you exchange vows without an audience.
Wisconsin also has no shortage of unique places to stay, from lakefront cottages to A-frame cabins in the woods. You can even turn your elopement into an adventure—think kayaking, hiking, or even a brewery tour to celebrate.
If you’re making your marriage legal (and not symbolic), you’ll have to follow a specific process in Wisconsin. Keep in mind that you don’t actually have to make your marriage legal on the day of your elopement. You can choose to have a symbolic elopement ceremony and deal with all the legal paperwork before or after. No matter what you choose, the process will generally follow the same steps:
You’ll need to apply for a marriage license at a county clerk’s office. You’ll both need to go in person and bring:
The cost varies by county but is typically $50–$120, payable by cash or card. Some counties may only take cash, so check ahead.
Wisconsin has a three-day waiting period, meaning you can’t pick up your license and get married on the same day. Some counties allow you to waive this for an additional fee. Once issued, your license is valid for 60 days, so make sure you plan your elopement within that window!
In Wisconsin, if you decide to have witnesses and an officiant, these are the requirements:
Wisconsin also allows for self-solemnization (without an officiant) if one or both of you belong to a religious, denomination, or sect that has rules around self-marriage. Proof of religion is not required and your word is good enough. To self-marry, you’ll need the same marriage license and paperwork. The only difference is that your signatures will go in the officiant field.
After the ceremony, your officiant (or you) will file the completed marriage license with the county. Keep in mind that this must be filed within three days of the ceremony. You can then request a certified marriage certificate (usually for a fee) to make it official for name changes, legal documents, etc.
Before you head off for your big day in the middle of a Wisconsin state park or along the lakeshore, it’s important to check if you need any permits for your elopement. While many locations are pretty relaxed about small ceremonies, some spots require special use permits—especially for weddings, photography, or larger gatherings.
It depends on the location and the size of your elopement. Many Wisconsin state parks and public lands require a special use permit for wedding ceremonies, even if it’s just the two of you and an officiant. Private venues, nature reserves, and national forest land may also have their own permit rules, so always check with the park office or land management beforehand.
Pro Tip: Try to do this ahead of time—many offices will take time to process the request!
Some locations, especially state parks, nature preserves, and historic sites, require a photography permit for professional shoots. This means if you’re hiring an elopement photographer, you’ll want to check if the location needs a permit and factor that into your planning.
As your photographer, I’ll be happy to help you navigate the world of permits!
If a permit is required, you’ll usually need to:
As you plan your elopement in Wisconsin, it’s essential to follow Leave No Trace principles. This helps protect the state’s stunning landscapes so future generations can enjoy them just as you do. Here are some ways to make eco-friendly choices during your elopement:
For more guidance on sustainable outdoor adventures, check out the Leave No Trace Center for Outdoor Ethics. Keeping Wisconsin wild and beautiful means you and future couples can continue to have unforgettable memories here!
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Picking the right location for your elopement is one of the most exciting parts of planning. Wisconsin has something for everyone, but before you start scouting, here are a few things to consider:
Are you dreaming of a moody, misty elopement by the water? A cozy cabin-in-the-woods kind of day? Maybe an adventurous hike with a stunning overlook? Think about what kind of scenery and atmosphere feel most like you. Understanding your vibe right off the bat will help you narrow down your options.
If you’re eloping just the two of you, you have total freedom to choose a remote or unconventional location. But if you’re inviting guests (this is totally optional!), consider their needs. Will they be comfortable hiking to a ceremony spot? Would they prefer a location with seating or shelter?
Read More: Do You Have to Invite Guests to Your Elopement?
Wisconsin’s seasons are dramatically different (but beautiful), so your time of year will shape your options. Summer offers a lot of greenery, fall is a bit cooler in temperature with colorful foliage, winter brings cold and snow, and spring has blooming wildflowers (but also unpredictable weather). Think about what season fits your vision—and your tolerance for temperature extremes.
Do you want to hike a few miles to a secluded waterfall, would you rather drive up to a scenic overlook, or do you want to take a few steps outside of your Airbnb? Some state parks and nature areas require a bit of a trek, while others have easy-to-reach ceremony spots. Keep this in mind when picking a place that aligns with your comfort level, abilities, and logistical needs.
Here are some of the best places to elope in Wisconsin:
If you want a unique and remote elopement, Madeline Island, the largest of the Apostle Islands, is a dream. With Lake Superior’s views, sandy beaches, cliffs, and forests, it offers plenty of diverse scenery. Big Bay State Park is a top spot, featuring a rugged lakefront and a super peaceful atmosphere. Keep in mind that since it’s an island, you’ll need to take a ferry from Bayfield (which is also a super cute place to roam around), but that just adds to the adventure!
One of Wisconsin’s most famous natural landmarks, Devil’s Lake State Park, is perfect for couples who love hiking, adventure, and beautiful landscapes. The bluffs overlooking the lake provide a dramatic ceremony backdrop. There are also multiple trails to choose from, ranging from easier lakefront paths to more challenging hikes.
If you want a mix of adventure and scenery, the Apostle Islands National Lakeshore is also an incredible elopement destination in Wisconsin. The sea caves, beaches, and rugged cliffs make it feel a little like a secret paradise. You can even say your vows by the water or rent a kayak for a post-ceremony paddle! Keep in mind that some spots require a boat or ferry ride, so plan accordingly.
For couples who want a blend of charming small-town atmosphere and nature, Door County might be a good option. The area is home to cliffside views, historic lighthouses, beaches, and wooded parks. Cave Point County Park is one of the most popular spots, offering cool rock formations and lake views.
If you love the idea of eloping near a waterfall, Copper Falls State Park in northern Wisconsin could be the one for the top of your list. The park has forests, hiking trails, and of course, Copper and Brownstone Falls. It’s an especially beautiful choice in the fall when the leaves turn shades of red and gold.
Pro Tip: If you know you want to elope in Wisconsin and have an understanding of your general vibe, you don’t have to pick your exact ceremony spot right away! When you book with me as your photographer, I can help you scout out an exact location.
Okay, Ottawa National Forest is technically across the border in Michigan’s Upper Peninsula. But it’s so close to northern Wisconsin that I think it’s worth considering. If you’re staying in Wisconsin, especially near Bayfield, Ashland, or Hurley, it’s an easy day trip and a great way to experience both states on your elopement day.
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Aside from location planning, there are a bunch of other things to consider when planning your Wisconsin elopement:
While eloping can be more affordable than a traditional wedding, keep in mind that costs still add up. In reality, an elopement can still cost a good chunk of change—the only difference is that you get to allocate your budget toward things that feel more meaningful to you (for example, you can skip the catering and big venue fees and allocate that budget to a fun activity).
Think about your must-haves—travel, permits, accommodations, photography, attire, and any activities you want to do on your elopement day. Setting a budget early on will help you prioritize what matters most to you.
Read More: How to Create an Elopement Budget
Even if you’re keeping things intimate, the right vendors can make your day extra special. Here are some key vendors you can consider:
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Booking local vendors and choosing nearby accommodations can help keep things simple while also supporting small businesses in the area. Consider hiring vendors who are familiar with your elopement location—they may have great recommendations for timing, hidden spots, and logistical details you might not have thought about.
One of the best things about eloping is that there are no rules. You can make your day as unique as you want! Think about ways to make it feel truly you:
Since elopements are often outdoors, it’s smart to come prepared. Here are some essentials:
Elopement days are often so much more than just the ceremony. Think about how you want to spend the day together—whether that’s watching the sunrise, hiking to a scenic overlook, kayaking, having a lakeside picnic, or ending the night with a bonfire under the stars. Your elopement is about celebrating your love in a way that feels right for you. Once you have ideas, you can figure out what is feasible and how you can organize them into your day.
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Choosing the right place to stay can add to the overall experience. Here are a few options depending on your style:
Read More: How to Plan an Airbnb or Vrbo Elopement
Okay, so what does the day actually look like? Here’s a sample timeline to inspire your Wisconsin elopement:
11:00 AM – Start getting ready at your cabin or Airbnb. Relax, play music, and soak in the excitement!
1:00 PM – First look and couple’s portraits near your Airbnb.
1:45 PM – Travel to your ceremony location (if it’s different from where you’re staying).
2:15 PM – Short hike or walk to your ceremony spot, taking in the beauty of Wisconsin’s landscapes along the way.
3:30 PM – Exchange vows by the lake.
4:15 PM – Celebrate with a post-ceremony picnic, champagne toast, or a cozy moment by the water.
5:30 PM – Explore more of the area for sunset portraits—go for a kayak paddle and finish off with a stroll along the shoreline.
6:45 PM – Enjoy golden hour and sunset photos.
7:30 PM – Travel back to your Airbnb or cabin.
8:00 PM – End the night your way—whether it’s a bonfire, stargazing, a private dinner, or popping a bottle of champagne in your cozy cabin.
This is just one example—your elopement timeline can be as relaxed, adventurous, or spontaneous as you want it to be!
As an elopement photographer, I’ve helped many couples navigate the planning process—I love being a resource and sharing my knowledge where I can! If you choose to book your Wisconsin elopement with me, here’s what you can expect:
So, if you’re ready to start planning your Wisconsin elopement, I’d love to help make it happen!