Last updated on July 29th, 2025

So, you and your partner have decided to elope. Congratulations! One of the burning questions I always hear from the lovebirds I work with is, “How much does it cost to elope, and how should I budget?” It’s a fair question! Many resources exist online about wedding planning and budgeting, but less is known about elopement processes and costs. 

This article looks at all the realistic costs associated with planning your special day, provides steps to create your elopement budget and offers some tips to keep in mind as you move through this journey.

The Importance of Budgeting for Your Elopement

Budgeting is a critical part of the elaborate elopement planning process. Your budget ultimately supports your visions and sets realistic expectations for how much things cost on your big day. Creating a budget also helps you keep things organized, which leads to less stress and more enjoyment throughout the journey.

How Much Does Eloping Cost?

In most cases, eloping will cost a good chunk of money. Generally, it can cost anywhere from $10,000 to $15,000, depending on your plan. This range may slide up or down.

Keep in mind that you can expect to pay more for high-quality services and vendors. For example, a good photographer, which most folks see as a necessary part of their elopement, can cost thousands of dollars.

What Does An Elopement Budget Include?

What you decide to include in your budget is entirely up to you. For most couples, their elopement is a magical time that deserves going all-out—and this means spending a little bit more for experiences and services. Therefore, some necessary parts of your budget may include an experienced photographer, accommodation, travel expenses, food, adventure activities, and other vendors like florists or hair and makeup artists.

Here are some items to consider including in your elopement budget. Keep in mind that these are generalized price ranges. Depending on your location and needs, you may see higher or lower prices. 

Photographer

Hiring a photographer is one of the most essential expenses in your elopement experience—and I’m not just saying that because I am one!

Photographers play a pivotal role in this process, from helping you plan your ceremony location to ensuring you have everything ready for the big day. And it goes without saying—they’re there to capture these special memories so you can look back on them forever.

A photographer can cost anywhere from $2,000 to $10,000 or more, depending on the type of package you choose, if travel is required, and how many hours you book them for. Since photographers offer a service you can benefit from for an entire lifetime (photographs are for life), choosing ones that deliver high-quality work is critical.

Venues

The meaning of “venue” is quite flexible when it comes to elopements. You can elope in different spots, from a national park, a cabin, Airbnb, your own home, or other unique venues. The cost can range from less than $100 to $1,000 or more. 

Travel

Travel costs largely depend on where you decide to elope. If you do it locally, your costs in this category may be lower than if you elope out of state or internationally. Travelling to a different location will include expenses like plane tickets and other associated costs like insurance, rental cars, or taxis.

Overall, travel costs when eloping can range from less than $100 to $2,000 or more. 

Accommodations

Again, the cost of accommodations depends on your elopement plan. If you stay in your town or city and wish to stay home, you can skip this part of your budget. However, if you want to rent an Airbnb or lodge elsewhere, your accommodations can range from $150 to $1,500. This cost depends on how many nights you stay in the space, the overall cost per night, and if you include any guests.

Attire

The cost of your elopement attire varies based on what you want to wear. For example, new or custom-made outfits may cost over $1,000, depending on where you shop and what alterations are needed. 

Elopement Activities

Many couples love infusing different activities into their elopement. Some examples of activities include:

• Renting a kayak or boat
• Guided tours
• Horseback riding
• Cafe or brewery experience
• Wine tasting
• Food for a picnic
• Museums

Like everything else, activity prices can vary. While a museum entry fee might be $12, a wine-tasting experience or curated tour could cost $150 or more.

Other Vendors

Aside from your photographer, other vendors you may want to consider having at your elopement include:

• Officiant: The person who makes it official. The cost can range from $300 to $500.
• Floral: Elaborate bouquets often range from $300 to $500 or more.
• Wedding Planner: The person who can help plan and coordinate your elopement. Prices vary depending on the vendor but can range from $800 to $2,000.
• Videographer: Wedding and elopement videographers can cost anywhere from $2,000 to $10,000 or more.
• Hair and Makeup: For professional hair and makeup touches, you might see prices ranging from $150 to $500.

Other Items

It’s important to factor in all other costs associated with your elopement for the most accurate breakdown of your expenses. Other items to keep in mind include:

• Wedding License: Cost can vary depending on the state. For example, in Minnesota, a marriage license can cost anywhere from $40 to $115.
• Park Entrance Fee: If you decide to elope in a national park, there may be a park entrance fee. Depending on the location, these costs can range from $10 to $30.
• Wedding and Photo Permits: Sometimes, hosting your elopement in a venue or national park may come with permit fees, like a special events permit and a photography permit. These prices vary depending on the site.
• Supplies: Any sort of miscellaneous items that you want to bring to your elopement, such as decor, vow books, safety kits, and extra gear.
• Food: This cost depends on how many people you’re feeding, where you eat, and if you decide to cook any meals.

Guests

Extending an invitation to guests is entirely up to you. If you want some people present at your elopement, you’ll need to decide if you’ll cover any of the costs, either in part or whole. Such expenses may include food, travel, transportation, and accommodation.

Unexpected Costs

As much as you’d like everything to go smoothly, some unexpected hiccups or costs may arise. So, allocating part of your budget to a contingency fund is essential. How much you set aside is up to you, but 5% to 10% of your total budget is a good start. These savings can cover the following:

• Unexpected changes in location
• Backup venues
• Costs of unforeseen circumstances (e.g., needing to buy some clear umbrellas for last-minute rain)
• Changes in vendors

How to Plan Your Elopement Budget

Before you start budgeting, it’s helpful to decide on a date because venues, vendors, and other experiences may vary their prices on different days of the week or times of the year.

1. Start With A Prioritization Exercise

Sit down with your partner and ask yourselves the following question: If you could only have three vendors at your elopement, who would they be and why? 

The point of this exercise is to get your gut-feeling thoughts right off the bat. This is your special day, so establishing your priorities before getting into the details can help you plan a budget that fulfills these dreams.

2. Have A Deeper Discussion With Your Partner

Aside from priority vendors, talk with your partner about the other aspects of your elopement that matter the most to you. Discuss your financial situation:

• Do you have any money-related worries?
• How do you plan on paying for your elopement? Do you have savings? Will you take out a loan?
• Are you on the same page about your spending range?

At this stage, while it’s a good idea to have a spending range in mind, it’s also crucial to remember that these limits may need adjustments to match the reality of vendor costs, especially if you’re unfamiliar with what these prices can look like at the start. So, don’t set your budget in stone—flexibility at this step is key.

Another aspect to discuss with your partner is the general location you hope to elope in. This will determine many of your budget items. For example, if you elope out of state or the country, you must consider travel expenses and accommodations. 

Next, brainstorm your values, needs, and wants:

• What top three vendors do you hope to have at your elopement? 
• Do you value unique experiences?
• What activities do you want to include in your day?
• Do you want guests at your elopement?
• Will you require a budget for travel and accommodations?

At this stage, jot down all your ideas on paper. You can also consider making a table with one column for wants and another for needs to help you visualize your priorities.

3. Do Some Research

After you have an idea of your location, wants and needs, and overall financial situation, it’s time to research ballpark estimates of how much everything will cost in your ideal location. As I mentioned in the previous step, your ideal spending range may shift during this research time. 

For example, some might assume they can find a photographer for less than $100. The reality is that these costs range in the thousands. So, coming across these findings before planning your budget is critical for setting realistic expectations.

Write down the price ranges for each item you hope to include in your budget. At this time, you can also take note of potential vendors and consider contacting the ones that catch your eye to get the ball rolling.

If you’re an LGBTQIA+ couple, keep in mind that at this stage, it’s also essential to search for queer-friendly vendors. You can look at their portfolio or website for signs of queer-friendliness or directly inquire about their stance.

4. Create an Elopement Budget Spreadsheet

I recommend starting an elopement budget spreadsheet to help you keep things organized. Include columns such as:

• Item name
• Allocated budget (based on your realistic research findings)
• Actual cost (after it’s booked or confirmed)
• Payment date (so you don’t accidentally miss payments)
• Paid (a simple checkbox to keep track of what you already paid for)
• Notes (jot down anything about the vendor, service, activity or item for your future reference)

The goal of this spreadsheet is to have a visual representation of all costs associated with your elopement so you can keep things organized and allocate the right amounts accordingly. 

5. Fill Out the Spreadsheet

As you hear back from your inquiries and confirm certain activities and bookings, fill these items out in your spreadsheet as soon as possible. At this stage, you might encounter the following situations:

• You may find that you have extra money to allocate to a specific activity or “want” that you didn’t initially include in your elopement experience.
• You may need to move parts of your budget around as you solidify prices with vendors. 

Encountering these scenarios is a normal part of the budgeting process. During this time, it’s essential to remain flexible. While it’s important to have spending boundaries, it’s also critical to have realistic expectations: Elopements cost money, and it’s possible that you may need to stretch your budget to honor your wishes on your special day.

Budgeting for Your Elopement: Pro Tips

Here are some additional things to keep in mind as you move through the budgeting process:

Be Prepared to Spend Your Money

In most cases, couples want to make their elopement day as memorable as possible. So, it’s crucial to be prepared to spend your money. While it’s easy to get caught off guard by the cost of services, vendors, and experiences, don’t let these prices deter you from doing the things you dream of. 

Try Not to Feel Sorry or Guilty

When it comes time to pay bills, whether for specific vendors or experiences, feelings of guilt may arise as you watch a large chunk of change leave your bank account. That’s totally normal! Remember, the purpose of your budget is to help you decide on your biggest priorities. So, if you’re spending money on these items, it means you’ve identified them as having a role in your happiness—and happiness should come guilt-free. 

Don’t Skip Budgeting for Unexpected Costs

As I said earlier, part of your budget should be a contingency fund. Anything can happen, and the last thing you want is to scramble to put together funds to pay for something that wasn’t part of the plan!

Expensive Doesn’t Always Equal Meaningful

As I’ve reiterated throughout this blog, elopements will cost money, especially if you want high-quality services, vendors, and experiences. 

However, you don’t have to spend tens of thousands of dollars to make your elopement meaningful. For example, practices like writing a letter to each other or taking a stroll through a forest can add value to your big day without taking up a large portion of your budget. 

Do What Feels Right For You

Throughout this article, I’ve emphasized the importance of prioritizing the things that will make your elopement experience feel special and unique. In many cases, doing so means having a larger budget to pay for the things that will make you happy.

However, the opposite is also true. If you and your partner don’t want to go all-out for this experience and want to do something simple, like elope at your local courthouse and go out for dinner without any professional photographers or vendors, go for it. You know your relationship best, so stick to what feels right when honoring your love!

Example Elopement Budget Breakdown (Ranges)

Here’s an example of different ranges for your budget items. Keep in mind that you don’t need to include all of these in your elopement, and costs can vary depending on where you are and who you decide to hire.

Photographer: $2,000 to $10,000

Marriage License and Other Legal Records: $40 to $115

Venue: $100 to $1,000

Travel: $100 to $2,000

Accommodation: $150 to $1,500

Elopement Activities: $10 to $150

Attire: $300 to $3,500

Officiant: $300 to $500

Florals: $300 to $500

Wedding/Elopement Planner: $800 to $2,000

Hair and Makeup: $150 to $500

Videographer: $2,000 to $10,000

Miscellaneous: $150 to $500 (park entrance fees, food, decor, etc.)

Working With Me As Your Photographer

Budgeting can be a tricky part of the elopement planning process—I get it! Without a solid plan, a realistic understanding of what services cost, and an efficient way to organize your money, this journey can feel overwhelming. Remember, setting a budget is all about dedicating the right resources to the areas that mean the most to you. 

As a photographer who has worked on countless elopements, I can provide some tips and tricks based on my previous experiences working with couples. I also offer various elopement packages at different price ranges to fit all kinds of needs. Ready to get started? Reach out to me today—I can’t wait to meet you, hear your story, and capture your beautiful love.

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