You’ve planned your dream elopement—the date is set, the location is locked in, and the excitement is brewing inside of you. But now comes the question that sneaks up on a lot of couples: What the heck do you actually pack for an elopement?

No matter where you choose to elope, packing smart can make your elopement day way less stressful (and way more fun). And trust me, as a queer elopement photographer who’s spent years adventuring with couples just like you, I’ve seen firsthand what a difference the right preparation can make.

I made this guide to help you build an elopement packing list that makes sure nothing important gets left behind, from elopement essentials to location-specific considerations. I also include elopement packing checklists at the end that are printable for your convenience!

Why Your Elopement Packing List Matters

Eloping is all about keeping things simple, intentional, and true to you. But even with more control over planning than a traditional wedding, you still need to prepare well in advance. A solid packing list isn’t about overloading yourself with “just in case” items; it’s about making sure you have what you actually need to feel comfortable and fully present. 

And, let’s be real: no one wants to realize they forgot their marriage license or hiking boots on the morning of their elopement. Taking the time to create a thoughtful packing list helps you avoid last-minute stress and lets you soak in every incredible moment of your day. And that’s the way I think it should be!

How to Build a Packing List That Actually Works for You

First thing I want to stress is that there’s no such thing as a one-size-fits-all elopement packing list. The best approach, in my opinion? Start by thinking about your specific location, activities, and the vibe you’re going for. Will you need layers for unpredictable mountain weather? Are you doing a sunrise hike that requires headlamps? Are you planning a picnic celebration after your vows?

From there, divide your list into a few categories: must-haves (like your outfits, rings, and legal paperwork), activity-specific gear, personal comfort items, and any fun little details that will make the day feel extra special. I also recommend packing with a “worst-case scenario” mindset for basics, like a small first-aid kit, backup snacks, and extra socks.

At the end of the day, the goal here isn’t to pack your entire house—it’s to feel prepared enough to relax and fully enjoy your elopement adventure.

General Elopement Essentials (No Matter Where You Go)

No matter if you’re eloping on a beach in Mexico or a trail in the Midwest, there are a few essentials you’ll always want to have ready. Here’s a quick list of the basics:

• Marriage license + IDs: Double-check any location-specific rules!
• Black ink pen: Most marriage licenses require that you only use black ink to sign, so pop one in your bag before you go!
• Vow books or printed vows: Even if you’ve memorized them, a backup is smart—trust me, blanking in the moment is a very real thing.
• Rings or other symbolic items: If you and your partner choose rings as your symbol of commitment (or literally any other item), don’t forget these! 
• Elopement outfits + accessories: Think weather-appropriate layers and comfortable shoes.
• Touch-up kit: Things like tissues, lip balm, hairpins, deodorant, bug spray, and sunscreen.
• Snacks + water: Always pack more than you think you’ll need.
• Phone, charging cord, and portable charger: If you’re eloping somewhere outside of the country, don’t forget to bring an outlet adapter, if needed!
• Adventure gear: If you’re hiking, climbing, or kayaking to your spot.
• Backup items: Small first-aid kit, safety pins, stain remover pen, etc.
• Toiletries: All the essentials, from toothbrushes and toothpaste to lotion.
• Cleanliness items: Think hand sanitizer, disinfectant wipes, and baby wipes.
• Medication: Anything you might need, such as daily meds, allergy meds, or pain relievers.
• Cash + cards: Especially if you’re heading somewhere remote where card readers aren’t reliable.

This list is your foundation—we’ll dive into more location-specific must-haves a little later!

Clothes + Accessories to Pack

Your elopement outfits should feel comfortable, true to your style, and ready for whatever the day throws your way. Whether you’re hiking, dancing, or lounging on a beach after saying “I do,” here’s what to think about packing:

• Main outfits: Wedding attire, second outfits if you’re doing a wardrobe change, and comfy travel clothes if you have a hike, flight, or drive.
• Layers: Jackets, shawls, leggings, or thermals, depending on the weather. Even summer evenings can get chilly!
• Shoes: Prioritize comfort. Hiking boots, sturdy flats, or barefoot sandals—whatever fits your location and vibe.
• Accessories: Jewelry, watches, cufflinks, ties, hairpieces, veils, hats. Basically, think about anything you want to add as a touch of personality to your look.
• Weather extras: Umbrella, gloves, hand warmers, sun hats, sunglasses.

Pro tip: If you buy new shoes, make sure you break them in before the big day! No one wants blisters halfway through their adventure.

Read More: Unique Elopement Outfit Ideas

Gear and Adventure Essentials (For Outdoorsy Elopements)

If your elopement involves hiking, exploring, or anything outdoorsy, regardless of the level of adventure, you’ll want to pack smart. 

• Backpacks: One for each of you if you’re carrying personal items or hiking gear.
• Navigation tools: Maps, trail apps, downloaded GPS (don’t rely on cell service).
• Lighting: Headlamps or flashlights if you’ll be out before sunrise or after sunset.
• Blankets or ground cloths: Perfect for sitting, snuggling, or spontaneous picnics.
• Emergency basics: First-aid kit, multitool, bear spray, whistle, hand warmers.
• Hydration: Water bottles, hydration packs, and electrolytes.
• Snacks + mini meals: Think easy-to-carry options like granola bars, fruit, or trail mix.
• Weather and nature protection: Sunscreen, bug spray, rain jackets, and maybe even gaiters, depending on your location.

Remember, when you’re out adventuring, comfort and safety should always come first. But this doesn’t mean that style has to be totally sacrificed! Hiking boots underneath dresses, anyone?

Read More: Adventure Elopement Activity Ideas

Special Touches to Make Your Elopement More “You”

I’ve said this before, and I’ll keep saying it over and over again: One of the best things about eloping is that you can truly make the day your own without following anyone else’s rules. Packing a few thoughtful extras can add so much meaning to your experience. Some ideas:

• A keepsake or heirloom: Jewelry, a handkerchief, a locket—anything with family or personal meaning.
• Personalized vow books: A small detail that becomes a lifelong keepsake.
• Letters to each other: Some couples exchange private notes before the ceremony.
• A cozy picnic setup: Blanket, champagne, favorite snacks, a small cake (whatever feels like a mini celebration).
• Music: A portable speaker and a playlist of songs that matter to you.
• Props for photos: Lanterns, embroidered jackets, or anything else that fits your vibe. As your photographer, I can bring some props, such as lanterns or elopement signs.
• Sentimental items: A photo of a loved one, a token, a special letter—anything meaningful to you.

I like to think of these items as little ways to tell your story. While they aren’t necessary, they can definitely make your elopement even more memorable!

Packing Tips to Make Your Life Easier

Even if you’re a seasoned pro at cramming a suitcase, elopement packing is its own thing. Here are a few tips I always recommend to my couples:

• Start early: Don’t wait until the night before. Make your list at least a few weeks ahead to leave time to order or buy items. You can even start laying things out a week in advance!
• Use packing cubes or clear bags: This is a great way to organize and compress your items while still being able to see where everything is. 
• Pack an emergency kit: Think first aid, safety pins, a mini sewing kit, a stain remover pen, and a few extra bobby pins.
• Separate ceremony items: Keep vows, rings, and marriage licenses together in a clearly marked bag or folder.
• Double-check weather and trail conditions: Last-minute changes are possible, and a backup plan (and packing for that backup) goes a long way.
• Leave a little room in your bags: You never know what mementos or souvenirs you’ll want to take home with you!
• Think about your bag sizes: This is especially important if you’re flying, as some airlines will include a carry-on bag while others will only include a personal item. Checked bags are usually something you have to pay for.

Pro tip: If you are flying, try asking your flight attendant if they can store your outfit somewhere in the plane that will avoid wrinkles—in most cases, they’ll be so excited for you and happy to accommodate!

Read More: How to Create a Backup Plan for Your Elopement

What to Pack Based on Your Elopement Location

Your location sets the vibe for your entire day, and it definitely influences what you’ll need to pack. You’ll probably see some repeated items in the breakdown below, but my goal here is to ensure you have the specific items on your radar based on your chosen location.

Read More: How to Choose the Right Setting for Your Elopement

Mountain Elopement Packing List

Mountains are stunning, but they’re also unpredictable. Even if it’s sunny at the trailhead, it could be chilly or stormy up top. Aside from the essentials I talked about above, here are some additional things you might need to consider:

• Warm layers (even in summer)
• Sturdy hiking boots
• Rain jacket or poncho
• Gloves, hat, and/or hand warmers
• Trekking poles (optional but helpful)
• Headlamp or flashlight
• Sunscreen + sunglasses (yes, even in winter!)
• Bug spray
• Bear spray
• Food and electrolytes for the trail

Pro tip: Pack your outfits in garment bags and change once you’re close to your ceremony spot if the hike is muddy or rough!

Beach Elopement Packing List

Beach elopements are usually relaxed with a traditional romantic vibe, but they definitely come with their own considerations, like wind, sand, and strong sun.

• Barefoot sandals or easy slip-on shoes
• Light, breathable clothing
• Wind protection for your hair (think pins, veils with combs, or hats)
• Lots of water and electrolyte packs
• Beach blanket or ground cover
• Sunscreen + bug spray
• Towel and backup clothes (for surprise splashes!)

Pro tip: If you’re planning a sunset beach elopement, bring a light sweater. I can speak from experience when I say that beach evenings can cool down fast!

Desert Elopement Packing List

Deserts are also a unique location for elopements, but the heat, sun, and dry air can sneak up on you if you’re not ready.

• Sunhat and UV-protective clothing
• Sunscreen
• Breathable, lightweight outfits
• Lots (and lots) of water
• Electrolytes or hydration tablets
• Chapstick and extra moisturizer
• Sunglasses with UV protection
• Sturdy, closed-toe shoes (yes, even in the sand!)

Pro tip: Always assume it’ll be hotter (and colder at night) than you expect. Layering will be your best friend here!

Forest/Woodland Elopement Packing List

There’s something magical about forest elopements (they’re actually one of my favorites!), but shade, bugs, and muddy trails mean you’ll want to prep smart.

• Bug spray and tick prevention
• Waterproof hiking boots or sturdy shoes
• Lightweight layers
• Rain jacket (just in case) and umbrellas
• Blanket or ground tarp for sitting
• Headlamp or flashlight (forest light fades fast!)

Pro tip: Stick to established trails and Leave No Trace practices. These simple actions mean you’ll help protect the forest for future generations to enjoy!

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Read More: Leave No Trace Guidelines for Elopements

City Elopement Packing List

City elopements have their own energy—vibrant,  sometimes fast-paced, and full of photo ops around every corner.

• Comfortable walking shoes (think cute but also practical)
• Dressy outfits + backup comfy clothes
• Small bag or backpack for essentials
• Hair + makeup touch-up supplies (windy city streets are no joke)
• Snacks and water (you’ll be moving more than you think!)
• Uber or taxi apps downloaded ahead of time

Pro tip: City elopements also mean unpredictable weather and traffic. Build extra time into your timeline just in case!

Destination Elopement Packing List

Planning to elope abroad? (So exciting!) International elopements are next-level magical, but they definitely require a little extra packing prep to make sure everything goes smoothly across borders.

• Valid passports (double-check expiration dates!)
• Visas (if required for your destination)
• Copies of important documents (passports, IDs, travel insurance, marriage licenses)
• Travel insurance info (especially important for health and cancellations)
• Credit cards with no foreign transaction fees + local currency
• Universal power adapter + chargers
• Lightweight, versatile clothing for different climates
• Outfits packed in carry-on (never check your wedding attire if you can help it!)
• Ceremony items like rings, vows, and special mementos in your carry-on
• Basic first-aid kit and any medications (including prescriptions in original packaging)

Pro tip: Always leave a little extra space in your luggage. You’ll probably want to bring back keepsakes from your adventure of a lifetime!

Read More: Destination Elopements: The Ultimate Guide

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Bonus: What NOT to Pack

Sometimes what you leave behind is just as important as what you bring. Here are a few things you can skip to save space (and stress):

• Bulky or complicated decor: Nature (or your city backdrop) is already stunning. You definitely don’t need to haul an entire floral arch up a mountain (and sometimes it’s not even allowed, or you’ll need to pay extra for it),
• Every “just in case” outfit: Trust what you’ve already picked and resist the urge to overpack. As a rule of thumb, limit yourself to one or two “just in case” outfits. If you’re not too limited by space, though, you can be a bit more lenient here!
• Heavy jewelry: Think about how important comfort is for you. If your elopement will involve lots of moving around, consider choosing lighter accessories and leaving heavier items at home!
• Uncomfortable shoes: If they aren’t broken in and ready to go, leave them home—your feet will thank you.
• Valuables you’d be devastated to lose: Losing items is a very real possibility, especially with a lot of moving parts. Stick to essentials only, especially for adventurous elopements. Important valuables (like rings, vows, passports, documentation, etc.) should be packed away in their separate, labeled bag or compartment.
• Non-eco-friendly items: Wherever you go, you want to make sure you’re minimizing your impact. Leave confetti and other hard-to-clean-up items at home.

Your Tailored, Printable Elopement Packing Checklist

As comprehensive as I’ve tried to be in this guide, I know that you might still be overwhelmed. So, I created some tailored packing lists for various types of elopements! Simply answer each of the questions and download your elopement packing checklist for free—it’s also printable. Remember, all elopements are unique, so these lists are not exhaustive. That’s why I’ve included extra checkboxes at the bottom of your list for anything I may have missed.

For more information on the various stages of planning elopements, check out my two guides:

The Ultimate Guide to LGBTQ+ Elopements (A guide tailored for queer folks)

How to Elope: The Ultimate Guide (A more general guide for everyone!)

A Little Preparation, A Lot of Magic

As I’ve emphasized throughout this guide, the goal is to prepare ahead of time to reduce your stress leading up to your elopement. Don’t worry about having a perfectly packed bag (I’d argue that perfection is probably not possible). Instead, cover all the essentials for your specific location and personal preferences, and leave room for a bit of spontaneity. While some items (like your rings and vows) will be hard to replace on short notice, some other items (like sunscreen and bug spray) can more than likely be picked up along the way.

Still feeling a little overwhelmed or wondering if you’re forgetting something important? I’m always happy to help my couples not just capture the day, but feel prepped too. If you want to secure a photographer for your big day and chat about your plans (or get a little elopement day packing pep talk), reach out to me!