Thinking about eloping somewhere with incredible nature, fresh air, and a slower pace? Welcome to the Pacific Northwest (PNW)—aka, one of the coolest places to elope in the US, in my opinion. Whether you already have your heart set on this region or you’re just starting to look into options, this PNW elopement guide will walk you through everything you need to know to plan your special day, from where to go, to how to make it all come together in a way that feels right for you.
You’ve probably heard the term “PNW” before—but if you’re not totally sure what it includes, here’s a quick breakdown. The Pacific Northwest usually refers to Washington and Oregon, and sometimes parts of Northern California and Idaho, depending on who you ask. It’s a region known for its mix of coastline, mountains, lakes, forests, and laid-back towns—all packed pretty close together. So if you’re looking for a place with a lot of variety in scenery (without needing to travel too far), the PNW is worth a spot on your elopement location list!
There’s something about the Pacific Northwest that just works for elopements. It’s one of those places where you can drive an hour and feel like you’ve entered a completely different world, which means you get a lot of variety without a ton of travel. It really doesn’t matter if you want to say your vows by the ocean, on top of a mountain, in a forest, or near a quiet lake; it’s all doable here.
What I love most (and what many couples usually love too) is how easy it is to find a spot that feels breathtaking and private at the same time. In a lot of cases, you don’t have to hike ten miles or go totally off-grid to find a beautiful, quiet place to get married.
First things first: Let’s talk paperwork. It’s not the most fun part about eloping, but the good news is that it’s not too complicated in this region. Obviously, legal requirements will vary by state, but here’s a general breakdown of what you’ll need to know:
If you’re eloping outdoors in the PNW (especially on public land like a national park, state park, or forest), you might need a special use permit. Not every location requires one, but it’s important to check ahead so you don’t run into issues on your day.
Permit rules vary depending on where you’re eloping. Here are a few common situations:
Timing is key. Some locations only issue a few permits per day or per season, and they can go quickly, especially for popular spots. I always recommend reaching out to the park or land office at least 2–3 months in advance (earlier if you’re planning something in peak season or at a popular spot).
And if this part feels overwhelming, you’re not alone—this is something I help couples with often. At the end of the day, we want to make sure we’re following the rules so your elopement doesn’t get cut short by a park ranger.
One of the best things about eloping in the PNW is how naturally beautiful it is—towering trees, peaceful beaches, quiet lakes. It really doesn’t need much added to feel special. And that’s exactly why it’s so important to take care of these places as we use them. If you’re eloping outdoors, one of the best ways to honor that is by following Leave No Trace principles. It’s basically just about being mindful of how we show up in natural spaces so they stay beautiful and accessible for others (including future couples!).
Here are a few easy tips to keep things sustainable and your environmental impact low:
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I’d argue that one of the most exciting (and maybe slightly overwhelming) parts of planning your PNW elopement is picking where it’ll all go down. With so many beautiful places packed into this region, narrowing it down can feel like a big task. The good news? There’s no “wrong” choice here—just the right one for you.
When choosing your elopement location, think about:
And of course, think about what makes you feel something. Ask yourself: “When I imagine getting married to the love of my life, what’s around me and how does it make me feel?”
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Once you’ve locked in your location, it’s time to start thinking about the little things that’ll help your elopement day feel smooth, personal, and relaxed.
One of the best parts about eloping in the PNW is how many types of accommodations there are. Whether you want a cozy cabin in the woods, a modern Airbnb with big windows, a beachy hideaway, or even a luxury lodge tucked into the mountains, there’s something for every vibe—and every comfort level.
You can keep things simple and just stay near your elopement spot, or make it an extended trip and explore the area for a few days. Some couples even turn their lodging into part of the experience (for example, saying their vows on the deck of a secluded A-frame or taking getting-ready photos in a light-filled forest retreat). If you decide to have any part of your celebration at your place of accommodation, just make sure it’s allowed by the stay owner first!
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Packing for a PNW elopement is a little different than packing for a traditional wedding. You’ll probably be outdoors, dealing with unpredictable weather, and maybe even hiking a bit, so comfort and practicality are key. But that doesn’t mean you have to sacrifice style. Here’s a quick list of what to bring (beyond your outfits and rings):
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I’m not just saying this because I am a photographer. Hiring the right person can really make a huge difference in how your day feels and how you remember it.
Elopements are different from traditional weddings in all the best ways, and that means you’ll want someone who gets that. You’re not just hiring someone to take pretty pictures; you’re bringing in a person who’s going to be with you for some of the most personal, emotional, and sometimes hilariously messy moments of your day. That’s why connection matters just as much as skill. Here’s what to look for in a PNW elopement photographer:
When searching for the right PNW elopement photographer, don’t be afraid to ask questions before you hire them. For example:
And don’t forget to check out their galleries. Look for storytelling, real moments, and how they document the in-between stuff. When it clicks, you’ll feel it!
Just because you’re eloping doesn’t mean you have to do it all alone (unless you want to, of course). Many couples still bring in a small team of vendors to help make the day feel intentional, supported, and stress-free.
Start by thinking about what feels important to you. Maybe it’s having your hair and makeup professionally done so you can relax and feel your best without the stress of doing it yourself (and a huge bonus: they’re likely to have the right products that are fitting for the environment you’re in, such as waterproof makeup). Or maybe you want a local floral bouquet that reflects the colors of the landscape.
When looking for these vendors, try to find people who are experienced with elopements and who click with your values. At the end of the day, it’ll just feel better working with vendors who you feel a connection with—and those who wholeheartedly celebrate your love.
Start by deciding what matters most to you, whether that’s photography, location, travel, or a killer post-ceremony meal, and build your budget around those priorities. Factor in permits, lodging, outfits, vendors, and any travel costs (especially if you’re flying or renting a car). Keep a little wiggle room for surprises, and remember: just because elopements tend to be smaller than weddings, it doesn’t mean you can’t invest in a day that feels intentional and meaningful.
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One of the best ways to make your PNW elopement feel rooted and intentional is by leaning into local resources. Whether it’s hiring vendors who live in the area, sourcing florals from a nearby farm, or booking a locally owned cabin, supporting the community you’re celebrating in adds a thoughtful layer to your day. Locals also tend to know the best hidden spots, trails, and timing tips—so you’re more likely to have a smoother experience.
Eloping has no rules, which means you can shape the day entirely around what feels meaningful to you. Want to start the morning with coffee by a lake? Write your vows on a trail bench? End the night with a campfire and your favorite takeout? I 100% support. You don’t have to follow any timeline that doesn’t make sense for you.
Some couples bring handwritten letters from loved ones to read after the ceremony. Others exchange personal vows somewhere totally private before joining friends later for a celebration. You could also include rituals that matter to you, like a handfasting, a toast, or a playlist full of songs that shaped your relationship.
The Pacific Northwest is generally known for being progressive and LGBTQ+ friendly, especially in places like Seattle, Portland, and much of Northern California. You’ll find plenty of affirming vendors, inclusive communities, and outdoor spaces where you can exist comfortably. That said, no place is perfect.
I like to remind couples that even in states that are known for being queer-friendly, you might still run into awkward encounters, unfortunately. And, on the flip side, you might also find unexpected celebration and support in places that lean more conservative.
The key is to go where you feel comfortable, work with vendors who make you feel seen, and trust your gut. I always recommend doing a little research ahead of time, especially if you’re eloping somewhere more remote, and leaning into a community of folks (like me!) who can provide some helpful tips and support.
Planning an elopement in the Pacific Northwest is such an exciting adventure, but it can also feel overwhelming at times. That’s where I come in. As someone who has experience photographing LGBTQ+ couples in this region, I know how to help you find the perfect spots, navigate logistics, and capture all those genuine moments that make your day that much more memorable. If you’re thinking about a PNW elopement and want someone who cares about connection, feel free to reach out. I can’t wait to meet you!