When you’re planning an elopement, one of the first questions that often comes up is when to do it. And honestly? There’s no right answer. Each season brings its own vibe, colors, energy, and practical realities—so your choice can really shape the feel of your day.

Let’s walk through the seasons together (kind of poetic, no?) so you can get a feel for what might be the best fit for your elopement. 

P.S. I created this guide from a northern hemisphere perspective (more specifically, the Midwest), so keep in mind that seasons vary depending on where you are in the world!

Things to Consider When Choosing the Best Season to Get Married

Before we get into the details of each season, let’s talk a bit about the big picture. I like to remind couples that picking the “best” time of year isn’t always just about aesthetics. It’s also about the kind of experience you want to have and what matters the most to you two.

Here are a few high-level things to think about:

• Location and landscape: Different regions look and feel wildly different depending on the season. For example, a desert elopement in June? You’ll probably be melting. That same spot in February? A bit more magical. Think about what kind of scenery you want and when that scenery is at its best in your opinion.
• Weather: Are you all about cold weather and cloudy skies, or do you prefer to feel the warmth of sunshine on your face? Do you want to layer up and snuggle or be barefoot on a beach? Your comfort matters on your elopement day, and while weather can be unpredictable in all seasons, planning for your preferred climate helps a lot.
• Crowds and privacy: If you’re hoping for a more intimate vibe, the time of year can make a huge difference. National parks, scenic overlooks, and even small towns can feel totally different depending on whether it’s peak tourist season or not.
• Accessibility: Some of the best spots out there aren’t accessible year-round. Trails could be snowed in, roads might close, or permits may only be available at certain times of year. This is especially important if you, or anyone in your group, has specific mobility needs (or if you’re simply not up for a surprise 6-mile hike).
• Colors and outfit vibes: This one gets overlooked sometimes, but can be surprisingly helpful! Your vision for what you’re wearing and how your day looks can point you in the right direction. I’ve had couples torn between different months and seasons, and then realize that ultimately, one season felt better because of the vibe of their dream outfits.
• The overall feel: Every season has its own, let’s call it, emotional texture. Spring can feel like a fresh start, while summer can feel more wild, adventurous, and carefree. Fall often feels calmer and reflective. Winter is quiet and cozy (but also chilly). Ultimately, think about the kind of energy you want to start your marriage with.

Basically, it’s less about finding the objectively perfect season and more about finding the one that aligns with your relationship and priorities.

Spring Elopements

As I mentioned, spring is often all about new beginnings, which feels pretty on point for starting a new chapter together. If you’re into wildflowers, gentle sunshine, and that “everything’s coming to life again” energy, spring might be your season.

It’s especially gorgeous in places with dramatic seasonal shifts (think cherry blossoms, rolling green hills, or desert blooms).

Some couples love spring because it feels hopeful and soft. You can usually catch milder temperatures before the heat of summer kicks in, and in some places, the moody spring fog can make for some beautiful photos.

Things to Watch Out For With Spring Elopements

• Unpredictable weather: This can include rain, mud, and even late snow
• Allergies: If you or your partner are sneezers, maybe bring the meds and a lot of tissues!
• Trail conditions: Some higher elevation spots are still snow-covered or muddy into May

Summer Elopements

Long days, epic road trips, alpine lakes, and warm nights under the stars—just a few things that come to mind for me when I think about summer. If you’re dreaming of hiking to your ceremony spot, kayaking in your elopement outfits, or just basking in golden hour, summer is pretty hard to beat in my opinion.

It’s also a great season if you’re including guests who need to travel or if you’re only eloping in a location that’s only accessible in warmer months (like further north or mountains).

Things to Watch Out For With Summer Elopements

• Crowds: National parks, popular viewpoints, and cool Airbnbs often book up faster in the summer. Planning for early mornings or weekdays can help avoid the crowds.
• Prices: Summer is usually peak tourist season, which means that flights, accommodations, and other bookings might be more expensive.
• Heat: Depending on where you’re eloping, the temperatures can be intense. Plan for lots of water, shade, and breaks for resting, rehydrating, and fueling up!
• Wildfire season: In some regions, smoke and fire danger can affect air quality and access. It’s always good to have a backup plan.

Read More: How to Make a Backup Plan for Your Elopement

Fall Elopements

Fall is a whole mood. Crisp air, vibrant and colorful leaves, cozy layers, and a sense of calm settling over everything. This season also tends to be a little quieter than summer, which means more privacy, easier travel, and fewer people wandering into your ceremony spot.

Things to Watch Out For With Fall Elopements

• Shorter days: I will say that golden hour in the fall is *chef’s kiss*, but you’ll need to plan around earlier sunsets.
• Unpredictable temperatures: Some days are 70 and sunny, while others might bring a bit of frost. Fall layers are a thing for a reason!
• Unexpected crowds: In some areas, fall is actually busier than summer because everyone wants to get a good peek at the changing leaves. Book early if you’re hoping to catch the peak colors, too.

Winter Elopements

I think most people would cringe at the idea of getting married in the cold, but honestly? There’s something magical about a winter elopement. It’s quiet, intimate, and has a softness that’s hard to describe and replicate in other seasons. Think snowy forests, frozen waterfalls, and hot drinks by the fire. If you’re into coziness and vibes that make you feel like time just stops (and don’t mind a little chill), winter might be your season.

Winter is also great for indoor elopements (like cabins, lodges, or cute Airbnbs), and it often means fewer crowds.

Read More: How to Plan an Airbnb or Vrbo Elopement

Things to Watch Out For With Winter Elopements

• Cold temperatures and limited daylight: You’ll want to bundle up and plan your timeline with short days in mind.
• Weather delays: Snowstorms and icy roads are very real and can impact travel, especially if you’re going to a remote area.
• Limited access: Some scenic spots are closed for the season or require snowshoes and special gear. If that’s not your vibe, you might need to pivot accordingly.

How to Choose the Best Season to Elope for You

As you’ve probably gathered by now, there’s no one-size-fits-all answer here—choosing your season to get married is (you guessed it) about what feels right for you two. Here are a few prompts to help you figure it out:

• What kind of weather makes you feel the most alive?
• Do you want guests or just the two of you?
• What do you want to wear?
• Are you envisioning a specific landscape or activity?
• What does your budget look like? Some seasons have more affordable travel and lodging options, especially winter and shoulder seasons.

Pro insight:

As someone who’s photographed elopements in every season, I can honestly say there’s no wrong time to get married. I’ve had couples elope with snow blanketing their surroundings, in muddy spring forests, along a beachy shore in the summer, and during peak fall colors (and just in time for Halloween vibes!)

Final Thoughts and A Little Encouragement

In case you’re overwhelmed or worried about making the wrong decision, I want you to know that no matter what season you choose, your elopement is going to be beautiful. Sure, the season helps set the vibe, but it’s really your love that is the main event. I like to think that when you imagine you as a couple at the center, everything else just falls into place. 

If you’re dreaming up your elopement and want a photographer who’s all in with you (from season-picking to muddy trail navigating), reach out—I’d love to help you bring it to life.